Wednesday, June 22, 2011
episode: -> males AND females. <-
males and females are indeed miles apart in the way they handle certain issues.
this is very true, especially when it comes to relationships, and involves strong feelings and emotions.
no relationship, regardless how madly in love both parties are, is going to be a bed of roses.
fights and quarrels are inevitable, and many a times, at the heat of the moment..
.. the word "break up" would be used.
or rather, strictly speaking, it is more commonly used as a form of verbal "threat" to stop all the nonsense right this second.
(coming more from the perspective of females)
i have got a few female friends, who are already happily married too, but admitted to actually using such methods before.
it is not
that wrong to do so, considering females are mainly more emotional creatures.
emotions do tend to get them carried away at times, or they simply want to end all the sh!t quick and fast.
BUT.
do NOT do it ever so regularly.
relationship is after all not a game.
neither is it supposed to be manipulative.
the truth remains that..
.. regardless how strong and independent a female is, you are going to see them more or less collaspe, in the wake of a relationship gone wrong.
HOWEVER.
males tend to be more rational creatures.
many tend to stop at the first word of "break up" from the one they love so much.
there are also males who took it at face value, and went ahead to end the relationship..
.. rather than trying to iron out any issues and differences with their female counterparts.
neither is actually wrong.
they are merely different ways of handling feelings, emotions, and relationships.
~ Beautiful Season ~